The Happy Family Coach Podcast - Break Generational Cycles of Dysfunction, Heal Past Wounds, Transform Your Faith, Learn Relationship Skills, Practical Parenting Strategies, and Whole Person Wellness
The Go-To Podcast for Christians Who Want To Rewrite the Story of Their Family’s legacy! Have you ever wondered why you parent the way you do? Do you find yourself feeling helpless and hopeless because no matter how hard you try, you continue to parent the way you were parented? No matter how many parenting books you’ve read, you still find yourself losing your patience, yelling, giving ultimatums instead of healthy consequences, reacting instead of responding, lecturing instead of teaching, and the list goes on. Do you see patterns of destructive behavior in your home? Do you recognize chronic stress in your life? Does it feel as though you are unequipped to stop the cycle of dysfunction in your family? Do you struggle to set healthy boundaries in unhealthy relationships? Do you often find yourself blaming others for your unhappiness? Are you often blamed for not making others happy? If you answered “yes” to more than one of these questions, this podcast is for you. Welcome to ”The Happy Family Coach with Danielle Alvarez Greer,” your sacred space for faith-based insights on guiding your family through generational healing, towards wholeness and restoration. We will dive deep into the complexities of parenting, family dynamics, faith, and personal growth. My name is Danielle Alvarez Greer, aka: The Happy Family Coach. I’m an ABC Certified Biblical Counselor, Family Life Coach, Creator of The Happy Kid Toolkit, Blended Family Expert, follower of Jesus Christ, wife, mom, stepmom, dog mom, wannabe-foodie, and travel junkie. More importantly, I have witnessed God’s loving power as He continues to radically heal me and my entire family from the generational trauma passed from generation to generation. Our Heavenly Father equipped me with tools that would totally transform the way I lived, loved, dealt with conflict, related to others, and parented my children. I have been called to share these valuable tools for healing and transformation with you. Join me as we delve into the unhappy roles and stronghold defenses we play in conflict—the Helpless Baby, the Blaming Bully, and the Bossy Helper—and discover how to break free from the cycle of dysfunction and BLAME! Together, we’ll explore The Happy Kid Toolkit™, uncovering how our beliefs and behaviors contribute to disharmony in our relationships. This podcast is dedicated to helping you break generational cycles of dysfunction and poor relationship skills by equipping you with practical tools, parenting strategies, and mindset shifts.Inside this podcast, I will teach you how to: -Look at the way you were parented -Heal past childhood wounds -Understand Scripture and apply it daily -Take unhappy thoughts and beliefs captive -Expose the strongholds (defenses) that keep you from having authentic relationships -Discover and live out your true identity in Christ -Understand the science behind your brain and heart connection -Simplify parenting and raising godly children. -Navigate the challenges of every day life with grace and confidence -Communicate more effectively -Teach your children to communicate without demanding, bullying, or collapsing into helplessness -Resolve conflict biblically in relationships -Nurture your mind, body, and spirit (whole person wellness) -Transform your faith! So, grab a cup of tea (or your beverage of choice), a pad and paper, kick back, and join me, Danielle Alvarez Greer, your friendly neighborhood Happy Family Coach, as we navigate the twists and turns of family life together. I pray this podcast glorifies God and blesses you! Ready to bring more peace, joy, and harmony into your home and relationships? Then hit that subscribe button and let’s dive in! Welcome to ”The Happy Family Coach Podcast” – where real life meets real solutions. Connect with me on social media, join my Facebook group, and signup for my email list to stay updated on upcoming episodes and events. Together, let’s build a community of resilient, joyful families.
Episodes

5 days ago
5 days ago
💡 You trust God with your life… but can you trust Him with your children’s?
Let’s be real—as parents, trusting God with our kids is one of the hardest things we’ll ever do. We can look back and see His faithfulness in our own lives, but when it comes to our children? Fear creeps in. Anxiety takes over. Our hearts ache as we watch them struggle.
We pray, we plead, we try to fix, control, and protect. Because deep down, we’re afraid. Afraid they’ll make mistakes. Afraid they’ll experience heartbreak. Afraid they’ll walk away from the faith.
But what if the same God who has been faithful to you will be just as faithful to them? What if their struggles aren’t signs that God is absent, but invitations for them to experience Him for themselves?
🔥 In this episode, we’re diving deep into:✔️ Why it’s so hard to release our kids into God’s hands—and how to shift from parenting in fear to parenting in faith.✔️ How to replace anxiety-driven prayers with faith-filled prayers that surrender, not control.✔️ The powerful visual of The Happy Kid Toolkit’s Unhappy Kid Triangle—how fear warps our parenting roles and how to step into faith-based, Spirit-led parenting.✔️ How to build a family culture of remembering God’s faithfulness so our children learn to trust Him, too.
✨ This episode is an invitation to breathe, to surrender, and to trust that the God who wrote your story is writing theirs, too.
🎧 Press play now and be reminded: God’s got them. And He’s got you, too.
👇 Tag a fellow parent who needs this reminder today, and don’t forget to subscribe! 💛🔥
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
#ParentingByFaith #SeekHisFace #GodsGotThem #FaithOverFear #ChristianParenting #TrustingGod #TheHappyKidToolkit #SpiritualGrowth #ParentingWisdom

Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
Wednesday Feb 05, 2025
💡 Are you seeking God's face—or just His hand?
Let’s be real for a second—how often do we come to God only when we need something? We want His blessings, His breakthrough, His provision… but what about His presence?
Psalm 105:4 says, “Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his face always.” But what does that actually mean in real life? How do we seek God’s face daily—not just on Sundays, not just when we’re in crisis, but in the everyday chaos of life?
In this episode, we’re diving deep into:✔️ The difference between seeking God’s face vs. seeking His hand✔️ How to invite God’s presence into your daily life—even when you’re busy✔️ Simple, practical ways to seek Him (beyond just reading your Bible)✔️ What actually changes in your life when you live with a heart that longs for Him✔️ The one game-changing mindset shift that will make seeking God second nature
✨ Here’s my challenge to you today: Are you pursuing God for who He is or just for what He can do for you?
This episode is packed with encouragement, real talk, and practical steps to help you build a lifestyle of intimacy with God. Because let’s be honest—we don’t just need more of His gifts… we need more of HIM.
🎧 Press play now and let’s dive in!
👉 If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend, tag me on Instagram (@thehappyfamilycoach), and let’s keep this conversation going!
👇 Don’t forget to check out the links in the show notes below for biblical counseling, The Happy Kid Toolkit, and how to book a free on-air family coaching session!
💛 Love you, friends. Now go seek His face today! ✨
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach

Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
Wednesday Jan 29, 2025
This is one of the hardest tensions I’ve ever wrestled with: I love the church, AND I’ve been hurt by it. If you’ve ever felt the same, you’re not alone.
In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing my own journey of navigating church hurt—what it felt like to wrestle with betrayal, disappointment, and grief, and how God met me in that tension. I’ll show you how to process those wounds biblically, set healthy boundaries, and replace hurt-driven lies with truth.
We’ll also dive into practical tools from the Happy Kid Toolkit to help you move from bitterness to grace and from isolation to healing. Together, we’ll explore what it means to hold onto faith, even when the church feels messy, because God’s plan for His people is still beautiful.
If you’re wrestling with church hurt, longing for healing, or searching for hope, this episode is for you. Let’s hold this tension together, trusting God to redeem the brokenness in us—and in the church.
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach

Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
Wednesday Jan 22, 2025
Parenting after divorce comes with its own set of challenges, but it’s also an opportunity to create stability, deepen connection, and set an example of love and grace for your children. In this episode of The Happy Family Coach Podcast, we’re tackling the big questions:
How does divorce impact kids, and what do they really need to feel secure and loved?
How can you build meaningful connections with your children in this new season?
Why is it so important to never badmouth your former spouse—and what should you do instead?
You’ll hear practical strategies, personal stories, and faith-filled encouragement to help you navigate co-parenting, set healthy boundaries, and protect your child’s heart.
Let’s turn this challenging season into a time of healing, growth, and legacy-building for your family.
Don’t forget to:
Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit to help your family navigate tough moments with grace.
Book a co-parenting coaching session with me for personalized support.
Join our Facebook community, The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community, to share your journey and connect with others.
Together, we can turn struggles into stepping stones for a brighter future.
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach

Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Conflict in families is as inevitable as laundry piles and snack debates—but it doesn’t have to lead to chaos. What if those moments of tension could actually become opportunities for growth, healing, and deeper connection?
In this episode of The Happy Family Coach Podcast, we’re diving into practical, faith-based strategies to turn family conflicts into stepping stones toward peace and understanding. I’ll introduce you to the Happy Kid Toolkit, a simple yet transformative tool to help your family break out of unhealthy patterns, take ownership of their emotions, and communicate with grace.
We’ll also explore what the Bible says about handling conflict—with humility, patience, and the fruits of the Spirit—and I’ll share real-life scripts for those ‘here we go again’ moments we all face. From siblings fighting over toys to teenagers snapping back, you’ll walk away with practical solutions that bring calm to the chaos.
If you’re ready to create a legacy of love, grace, and resilience in your home, this episode is for you.
What You’ll Learn:
Why conflict happens (and why it’s normal).
How the Happy Kid Toolkit can transform family dynamics.
Practical scripts to use during real-life conflicts.
Biblical truths that bring peace and perspective.
Don’t forget to:
Purchase The Happy Kid Toolkit (link below).
Book a family coaching session with me for personalized support.
Join our Facebook community, The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community, to share your wins and connect with other families on this journey.
Let’s turn conflict into connection—one intentional step at a time!
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach

Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
Hey there, friends!
Can we be real for a second? Parenting has this incredible way of bringing out the best in us... and also sometimes shining a giant spotlight on the parts of us that still need some healing. Have you ever had a moment when your child’s meltdown felt like it was aimed straight at your soul? Like their refusal to put on shoes suddenly turned into ‘Why do I feel like I’m failing at life?’
Well, I’ve been there—and that’s what this episode is all about. In When Parenting Triggers Your Own Trauma, we’re diving into what happens when those big emotions bubble up, why it’s actually an opportunity for growth, and how we can respond with grace instead of guilt.
I’ll share some personal stories (including one involving juice and a very guilty mom moment), practical steps you can take when you’re feeling triggered, and how to start the deeper work of healing. Spoiler alert: it’s not about being perfect—it’s about showing up, owning your story, and leaning into God’s grace.
So grab your coffee, your journal, or just your earbuds, and join me for a conversation that just might change the way you see those ‘trigger moments’ forever. We’re in this together!
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach

Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
🎉 Ready to transform your family life this year? 🎉
What if you could start the new year with a challenge that brings your family closer, strengthens your faith, and builds habits that last a lifetime? Welcome to The Family 75 Challenge!
In this exciting episode, we’re introducing a fun, faith-filled way for families to grow together through small, intentional daily habits. From creating quality family moments to deepening your spiritual connection, this challenge is designed to help you turn 2025 (or future years) into your best year yet!
💡 Do you ever feel like your family is too busy to connect?💡 Are you ready to replace screen time battles with meaningful conversations?💡 Do you want to cultivate healthier routines while growing in love, joy, and faith?
If you answered “yes” to any of these, you’ll love this episode! We’ll walk you through the five simple categories of the challenge—Faith & Spiritual Growth, Physical Activity, Gratitude & Reflection, Quality Family Time, and Healthy Choices—and give you the tools you need to get started.
PLUS, don’t miss your FREE Family 75 Challenge Tracker to help you stay motivated and celebrate your progress. You can find and download this free printable tracker sheet on my Facebook Community Page The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community.
💬 Are you ready to take the challenge? Grab your family, tune in, and let’s make 2025 a year of connection, growth, and joy!
🎧 Listen now and join the conversation using #Family75Challenge2025. We can’t wait to see how your family grows!
Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode, and tag us with your progress on social media!
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach

Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
Wednesday Dec 25, 2024
This Christmas, let’s pause the busyness, gather as a family, and step into the greatest story ever told—the story of Jesus' birth.
In this special episode, I invite you to imagine the quiet hills of Bethlehem, the wonder of the shepherds, and the humble stable where love entered the world in the form of a tiny baby. Through rich storytelling, vivid descriptions, and heartfelt reflections, we’ll journey together to discover the true meaning of Christmas.
This isn’t just a story for children—it’s a story for all of us. It’s about hope in the darkness, peace that calms our hearts, joy that transcends our circumstances, and love that changes everything.
So, gather your family by the tree, grab some cocoa, and listen as we celebrate the greatest gift ever given: Jesus Christ. This is the story that can transform your heart and home this Christmas—and for generations to come.
🎧 Tune in now and let this Christmas story remind you of the miracle, wonder, and unshakable hope of our Savior.
Merry Christmas Everyone!
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach

Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
Wednesday Dec 18, 2024
Hey friends, I have a question for you—what legacy are you building this Advent season? If you’re anything like me, it’s so easy to get caught up in the busyness of the holidays. But what if we paused and asked ourselves: Are we focusing on what truly matters?
In this episode, I’m sharing practical, Christ-centered ways to align your family’s heart with the hope, peace, joy, and love that Jesus brings. Together, we’ll explore simple traditions, meaningful conversations, and everyday moments that will help you transform your home and create a legacy of faith for generations to come.
Friend, this Advent season is an opportunity to reflect, refocus, and draw closer to Christ as a family. Let’s take it together. I can’t wait to share this with you—grab a cozy drink and let’s dive in!
🎧 Listen now and let’s transform this Christmas season into something truly unforgettable!
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach

Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
As the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season unfolds, it’s easy to misplace our hope. We think, “If I just get the promotion, save more money, keep my family looking perfect, or have everything under control, I’ll feel at peace.” Sound familiar?
In this special Advent episode, we’re tackling the sneaky traps of misplaced hope—careers, relationships, wealth, appearances—and exploring why these things can never truly satisfy. Together, we’ll discover how to shift our hearts to the unshakable hope found only in Jesus.
I’ll share personal stories, real-life examples, and practical steps to help you refocus this season, from surrendering false hopes to cultivating daily reminders of God’s faithfulness.
Friend, let’s stop striving for what doesn’t last and anchor our hope in Christ, the One who never fails.
🎧 Listen now to reclaim hope this Advent season!
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Schedule a FREE on-air family counseling session with me. Click here to learn more and sign-up
4. 👉 Get your FREE e-book, "The Healing Mirror: Turning Pain into Purpose," a guide to self-reflection, boundaries, and spiritual growth. Click here to subscribe and instantly receive your free e-book.
5. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
6. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
7. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach