The Happy Family Coach Podcast - Break Generational Cycles of Dysfunction, Heal Past Wounds, Transform Your Faith, Learn Relationship Skills, Practical Parenting Strategies, and Whole Person Wellness
The Go-To Podcast for Christians Who Want To Rewrite the Story of Their Family’s legacy! Have you ever wondered why you parent the way you do? Do you find yourself feeling helpless and hopeless because no matter how hard you try, you continue to parent the way you were parented? No matter how many parenting books you’ve read, you still find yourself losing your patience, yelling, giving ultimatums instead of healthy consequences, reacting instead of responding, lecturing instead of teaching, and the list goes on. Do you see patterns of destructive behavior in your home? Do you recognize chronic stress in your life? Does it feel as though you are unequipped to stop the cycle of dysfunction in your family? Do you struggle to set healthy boundaries in unhealthy relationships? Do you often find yourself blaming others for your unhappiness? Are you often blamed for not making others happy? If you answered “yes” to more than one of these questions, this podcast is for you. Welcome to ”The Happy Family Coach with Danielle Alvarez Greer,” your sacred space for faith-based insights on guiding your family through generational healing, towards wholeness and restoration. We will dive deep into the complexities of parenting, family dynamics, faith, and personal growth. My name is Danielle Alvarez Greer, aka: The Happy Family Coach. I’m an ABC Certified Biblical Counselor, Family Life Coach, Creator of The Happy Kid Toolkit, Blended Family Expert, follower of Jesus Christ, wife, mom, stepmom, dog mom, wannabe-foodie, and travel junkie. More importantly, I have witnessed God’s loving power as He continues to radically heal me and my entire family from the generational trauma passed from generation to generation. Our Heavenly Father equipped me with tools that would totally transform the way I lived, loved, dealt with conflict, related to others, and parented my children. I have been called to share these valuable tools for healing and transformation with you. Join me as we delve into the unhappy roles and stronghold defenses we play in conflict—the Helpless Baby, the Blaming Bully, and the Bossy Helper—and discover how to break free from the cycle of dysfunction and BLAME! Together, we’ll explore The Happy Kid Toolkit™, uncovering how our beliefs and behaviors contribute to disharmony in our relationships. This podcast is dedicated to helping you break generational cycles of dysfunction and poor relationship skills by equipping you with practical tools, parenting strategies, and mindset shifts.Inside this podcast, I will teach you how to: -Look at the way you were parented -Heal past childhood wounds -Understand Scripture and apply it daily -Take unhappy thoughts and beliefs captive -Expose the strongholds (defenses) that keep you from having authentic relationships -Discover and live out your true identity in Christ -Understand the science behind your brain and heart connection -Simplify parenting and raising godly children. -Navigate the challenges of every day life with grace and confidence -Communicate more effectively -Teach your children to communicate without demanding, bullying, or collapsing into helplessness -Resolve conflict biblically in relationships -Nurture your mind, body, and spirit (whole person wellness) -Transform your faith! So, grab a cup of tea (or your beverage of choice), a pad and paper, kick back, and join me, Danielle Alvarez Greer, your friendly neighborhood Happy Family Coach, as we navigate the twists and turns of family life together. I pray this podcast glorifies God and blesses you! Ready to bring more peace, joy, and harmony into your home and relationships? Then hit that subscribe button and let’s dive in! Welcome to ”The Happy Family Coach Podcast” – where real life meets real solutions. Connect with me on social media, join my Facebook group, and signup for my email list to stay updated on upcoming episodes and events. Together, let’s build a community of resilient, joyful families.
Episodes
Wednesday Sep 04, 2024
Wednesday Sep 04, 2024
Have you ever looked in the mirror and asked yourself, “Why do I keep ending up in relationships that leave me feeling empty, unworthy, or invisible?” Perhaps you’ve felt the sting of rejection or the suffocating weight of constantly seeking approval, only to be met with more heartache. What if the very beliefs you hold about yourself are the chains that keep you bound to these toxic dynamics?
In this deeply emotional and transformative episode—the first part of a powerful two-part series—we dive into the heart of why we attract the relationships that hurt us the most. We explore the hidden core beliefs that silently shape our lives, influencing every connection we make—whether it’s with a partner, a friend, a family member, or even a spiritual leader. These beliefs, often forged in the fires of early experiences, family dynamics, and significant relationships, can create patterns that trap us in cycles of pain and disappointment.
Are you constantly striving for love, yet always feeling like it’s just out of reach? Do you find yourself in relationships where you’re giving everything but receiving nothing in return? This episode will help you uncover the “why” behind these patterns.
Using the powerful lens of biblical truth and practical wisdom, we begin the journey of breaking free. You’ll learn how to recognize and challenge the lies you’ve believed about yourself and discover the truth of who you are in God’s eyes—fearfully and wonderfully made. Together, we’ll walk through the first three of five essential steps that will help you transform your core beliefs and begin to heal from the inside out.
Grab a pen, find a quiet place, and get ready to reflect deeply as we embark on this journey of healing and renewal. This isn’t just another podcast episode—it’s the beginning of a turning point, a chance to finally say, “No more!” to the relationships that have held you back and step into the freedom and love you were always meant to experience. And don’t forget to tune in for Part 2, where we’ll continue to uncover the steps to lasting transformation and wholeness.
May the Lord bless you.
xoxo,
Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
Wednesday Aug 28, 2024
Wednesday Aug 28, 2024
Have you ever been blindsided by someone you trusted completely? Felt the sting of betrayal so deep that it left you questioning your worth, your relationships, and even your faith? 💔 What do you do when your world is turned upside down by false accusations and the people you once relied on suddenly doubt your integrity? How do you find peace when hope feels like it’s slipping through your fingers?
In this powerful episode, I open up about my personal journey through one of the darkest seasons of my life—when I was betrayed and falsely accused by someone close to me. I share the raw truth about how this experience left me frozen in pain, and how I eventually found healing, peace, and joy through God’s unfailing love.
Together, we’ll explore:
The devastating impact of betrayal and false accusations on your heart and soul
How to navigate the pain when hope seems deferred and distant
The role of faith in finding peace and joy amidst the storm
Practical steps to healing and reclaiming your identity in Christ
How God uses even our deepest wounds to shape us and display His strength
If you’ve ever faced betrayal, disappointment, or the crushing weight of deferred hope, this episode is for you. Tune in to discover how you can find true healing and restoration through God’s promises, even when the world seems to be against you.
Don’t miss this deeply personal and transformative conversation—your path to peace and healing starts here.
Listen now and let’s walk this journey together.
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
Wednesday Aug 21, 2024
Wednesday Aug 21, 2024
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the endless scroll of social media, wondering why everyone else seems to have it all together while you’re left feeling less than enough? You’re not alone. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the digital world’s biggest trap—comparison—and uncover how it steals our joy, peace, and even our identity.
Join me, Danielle Alvarez Greer, as we explore practical, faith-based strategies to break free from the social media comparison game. You’ll hear powerful testimonials from real people who’ve found freedom and reclaimed their true worth in Christ. Together, we’ll navigate how to set healthy boundaries, cultivate a Christ-centered identity, and find contentment in a world that constantly demands more.
But that’s not all—what impact are electronic devices and social media having on our children’s mental and physical health? Get a sneak peek into our next episode, where I’ll be sitting down with a renowned pediatrician from Chattanooga, to discuss this critical issue.
Are you ready to stop comparing and start living in the peace and purpose God designed for you? Hit play, and let’s get started! Don’t forget to share your thoughts, questions, and stories with me—I’d love to hear how you’re navigating social media in your own life.
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
Wednesday Aug 14, 2024
Wednesday Aug 14, 2024
Are you feeling overwhelmed by the constant demands of technology, social media, and the fast-paced chaos of modern life in your family? I totally get it—I've been there too. That's why in this episode of 'The Happy Family Coach,' I’m sharing six actionable strategies to help you reclaim peace, strengthen your family bonds, and cultivate hope, even in the midst of today’s digital distractions.
Whether you’re part of a blended family navigating unique challenges, a parent trying to raise kids in a tech-driven world, or a young adult struggling with the pressures of social media, this episode is for you. I’ll show you how small, intentional changes can transform your daily routine, build deeper connections, and anchor your home in God’s unshakable peace. Imagine a home where stress doesn’t dominate, where real-life relationships take priority over screen time, and where love, forgiveness, and unity are the guiding principles.
Sound too good to be true? I promise it’s not. Tune in to discover practical tips and spiritual insights that will make a real difference in your family’s life. Your family’s peace and joy are worth it—let’s make it happen together!
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
Wednesday Aug 07, 2024
Wednesday Aug 07, 2024
Welcome back to 'The Happy Family Coach Podcast!' In Episode 17, we're diving into part two of my series on successfully blending families. This episode is packed with actionable tips and heartfelt stories to help you create a stable and united family environment. Discover the importance of consistency in parenting, how to maintain individuality while fostering unity, and the power of setting shared family goals.
Are you struggling to establish routines in your blended family? Wondering how to keep peace and order while respecting everyone's unique God-given identity, gifts, and talents? I’ve got you covered with practical advice and biblical principles to guide you every step of the way.
Join me, Danielle Alvarez Greer, as I share real-life examples and faith-based insights to help you navigate the complexities of blended family life. Whether you’re a biological parent or a stepparent, this episode offers valuable strategies to build a loving, harmonious home.
Tune in to learn:
How to create consistent routines that bring peace and stability
Ways to celebrate each family member’s individuality
The importance of presenting a unified front as parents
Tips for setting and achieving shared family goals
Don’t miss this chance to transform your family dynamics and strengthen your bonds. Hit play now to start building the harmonious blended family you've always dreamed of!
Subscribe and share: If you find this episode helpful, please subscribe to 'The Happy Family Coach,' leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit. Your support helps us reach more families striving to build happy, healthy, and spiritually grounded homes.
Need personalized guidance? Visit happyfamilycoach.com to book a biblical counseling or blended family coaching session with me today. Let's work together to create a faith-filled family environment where everyone thrives!
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
Wednesday Jul 31, 2024
Wednesday Jul 31, 2024
Are you navigating the complexities of blending families? Do you struggle with establishing roles, building trust, and creating unity in your home? Join me in this insightful episode of 'The Happy Family Coach' as we dive into the seven foundational steps to blending families successfully, guided by biblical principles and real-life experiences.
In Part 1 of this two-part series, we tackle some of the most pressing questions blended families face:
How do you establish clear roles and expectations in a blended family?
What strategies can help build trust and respect among step-siblings and step-parents?
How can you create new family traditions that everyone will cherish?
Why is it crucial to maintain a godly family hierarchy, and how do you implement it?
Through practical tips and heartfelt personal stories, we explore the importance of open communication, patience, and flexibility. Learn how to handle common challenges like loyalty conflicts, discipline discrepancies, and emotional strain with grace and love. Discover how the Holy Spirit and prayer can transform your family dynamics, leading to remarkable growth and unity.
In this episode, I share a personal story about my own experience with blending families and the lessons we learned along the way. We discuss the significance of establishing a healthy hierarchy to foster a stable and orderly environment.
Whether you're just beginning your journey as a blended family or looking for ways to strengthen your existing relationships, this episode is packed with valuable insights and encouragement. Click play to embark on a journey towards a harmonious, faith-filled home where every member feels valued and loved.
Tune in next week for Part 2, where we'll dive even deeper into advanced strategies for blending families with older teens, young adult children, and more.
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Wednesday Jul 24, 2024
Are you tired of constantly seeking approval and feeling like you have to prove your worth? In this transformative episode, we delve deep into understanding the root causes of this need for validation and uncover five powerful ways to break free and find your true worth in Christ.
Explore how childhood experiences and early relationships shape our self-worth and uncover how you might be unintentionally passing these patterns to your children. Through practical steps for setting healthy boundaries, embracing unconditional love, and healing generational wounds, we provide a path to true freedom.
Engage with thought-provoking and reflective questions designed to trigger self-awareness and emotional intelligence:
When did you first feel the need to prove your worth?
How do parental approval, comparisons, criticism, and emotional neglect negatively shape your sense of worth, value, and approval?
With real-life examples and Biblical insights, you’ll learn how to realign your sense of worth with God’s truth and break the cycle of seeking approval. This episode is not just about personal healing, but also about fostering healthy, unconditional love in your family relationships.
Discover the keys to emotional freedom, and start your journey towards a life where your worth is defined by God’s unconditional love and not by the approval of others. Join us for an emotional and thought-provoking journey towards generational healing and lasting self-worth.
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
6. Take a walk with me: Walking with God: A 30-minute Guided Walking Meditation for Complete Wellbeing
Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Hey friends! It's Danielle from 'The Happy Family Coach' podcast, and I'm so excited to share this special episode with you. We all know life can get overwhelming, and it's easy to forget to take care of ourselves in the hustle and bustle. That's why I've created this 30-minute guided walking meditation designed for complete self-care and holistic wellbeing.
Are you feeling burdened by stress and anxiety? Do you long for a deeper connection with God and a moment of peace in your busy day? Lace up your walking shoes, put on your headphones, and join me for a transformative journey. We'll combine soothing nature sounds and gentle piano music with faith-based reflections to help you reconnect with the Lord so that you can reconnect with yourself.
As we walk together, I'll guide you through gentle breathing exercises, sensory engagement, and emotional release. We'll explore questions like: What burdens are you carrying that you need to lay at God's feet? How can you invite His healing into past hurts and current worries? This isn't just a walk; it's an opportunity to experience God's presence, His peace, and His healing in a profound way.
During this walk, we'll dive deep into emotional and mental healing, asking God to bring comfort and peace to our hearts. We'll reflect on scriptures and God's promises, feeling His love and grace with every step. We'll also engage our senses to fully experience the beauty of His creation, making this a spiritually enriching experience.
Whether you're dealing with mental and emotional stress, physical tension, or spiritual longing, this episode is for you. Let’s walk this path to healing together, hand in hand with our Creator. Trust me, you don't want to miss this.
At 'The Happy Family Coach' podcast, I am dedicated to guiding families through generational healing towards wholeness and restoration. This meditation is a perfect example of how I integrate faith and practical steps in order for the Lord to bring about true transformation. Tune in now and let’s embark on this journey of wellness and renewal together.
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
6. Listen to Episode 13 Self-care for Parents: Balancing Family Responsibilities with Personal Well-being
Wednesday Jul 10, 2024
Wednesday Jul 10, 2024
Feeling overwhelmed by the demands of parenting? Struggling to find time for yourself amidst the chaos of daily life? You're not alone. In this transformative episode of 'The Happy Family Coach Podcast,' I delve into the vital importance of self-care for parents. Discover how neglecting your well-being can lead to burnout, stress, and even impact your ability to be the best parent you can be.
I share practical, faith-based strategies supported by science to help you maintain your mental, physical, and spiritual health. Are you trapped on the Unhappy Kid Triangle, constantly playing the roles of the Bossy Helper, Blaming Bully, or Helpless Baby? Learn how to break free from these patterns and create a balanced, fulfilling life for yourself and your family.
Join me as I share a deeply personal story of my own struggles with postpartum depression and the lifesaving power of self-care and community support. Discover actionable tips to start prioritizing your well-being today. Let's embark on this journey together – because a happy, healthy parent means a happy, joyous, and healthy family.
Tune in and take the first step towards a more balanced and joyful parenting experience. Don't forget to book your family or parent coaching session with me for personalized support. Visit happyfamilycoach.com to learn more.
Questions to Ponder:
Are you giving yourself permission to take care of your own needs?
How can integrating self-care transform your daily life and parenting?
What steps can you take today to start your journey towards better well-being?
Connect with me and let’s walk this path together!
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach
Wednesday Jul 03, 2024
Wednesday Jul 03, 2024
Are you struggling to find balance between your child's happiness and your family's faith? Wondering if your parenting style might be unintentionally placing your child's needs above your relationship with God? Join me, Danielle Alvarez Greer for this episode of "The Happy Family Coach Podcast" as I delve into the crucial distinction between child-centered and Christ-centered parenting.
In this episode, discover how misplaced allegiances can disrupt family harmony and learn practical steps to realign your priorities with Christ at the center. Through heartfelt personal stories, biblical insights, and actionable tips, I will guide you towards fostering healthier, more resilient family dynamics.
Get ready to explore:
The signs of child-centered parenting and its impact on your family.
How to shift towards Christ-centered parenting and what that looks like.
Real-life examples and success stories of families who have made this transformation.
The power of the Happy Kid Toolkit in promoting emotional regulation, healthy boundaries, and a Christ-centered identity for your children.
Are you ready to transform your parenting approach and strengthen your family's faith? Tune in to Episode 12 of "The Happy Family Coach Podcast" and embark on a journey towards a more balanced, Christ-centered family life.
May the Lord bless you.
xo, Danielle
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Next Practical Steps:
1. Book a family coaching or biblical counseling session with me: www.happyfamilycoach.com
2. Purchase the Happy Kid Toolkit: www.happykidtoolkit.com
3. Discover your go-to position/role on the Unhappy Kid Triangle by downloading the quiz here
4. Engage and share your answers in my FB group: The Happy Family Coach Podcast Community
5. Follow me on Instagram: @thehappyfamilycoach