53. Christlike Love Is Not Compliance

Breaking Free from Generational Fear, Religious Control, and People-Pleasing Love

Have you ever been told that staying silent was the “Christlike” thing to do?
That setting boundaries is selfish?
That confronting sin is unloving?

Friend, you are not alone—and you are not crazy.

In this powerful episode, Danielle Alvarez Greer shares her personal journey through spiritual abuse, generational patterns of compliance, emotional manipulation, and church hurt—and how Jesus radically transformed her understanding of love, truth, and holy boldness.

You’ll discover:

• Why Christlike love is not the same as silence or tolerance

• How fear, guilt, and people-pleasing keep us trapped in fake peace

• What compliance with sin looks like in real-life relationships (marriage, parenting, ministry, friendship, and more)

• How to recognize spiritual abuse and escape the Unhappy Kid Triangle

• What Jesus actually modeled—bold love, holy confrontation, and freedom

This episode will give you language for your experience, healing for your heart, and courage to walk in truth—even when it’s hard.

📖 Featuring scriptural truth, personal story, practical tools, and powerful reflection questions.

 

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